Sometimes in dreams, we receive information on others.  This information generally lets us know how they are doing-good or bad.  The dream might address a particular issue or the overall theme of their current situation.  I have had several dreams like this over the years, and have found they are meant to be of help.  To be forewarned gives me the ability to better react to whatever situation the individual has created for themselves and give better advice, thus creating a more positive interaction.

In this dream, I was waiting for someone close to me to drive up.  We were to go on a short trip together and were riding in her car.  She stopped in front of me and got out.  I saw inside her car that it was a terrible mess.  It was full of trash.  So much trash that she even was sitting on it in the driver’s seat and it had pushed her seat back.  It was a wonder she could even safely drive.  This outraged me, as she could have hurt herself or someone else by being so lazy as to not throw the trash out and allow it to build to the levels it was at.  I immediately grabbed the trash on the driver’s seat and in front of it and took it out.  I told her, “I’m driving until we get to our destination!”  I properly adjusted the seat for myself and waited for her to get in.  The car was still full of trash but I wasn’t going to worry about the rest of it.  Only what was making the vehicle unsafe.  I told her, “You can’t drive around like that, you will kill someone!” She was angry with me for changing what she had done, but said nothing and got into the passenger’s seat.  I proceeded to drive us to where we needed to be.  Once there, I got out of the car and said, “Here’s your car back!”  I had decided not to worry about what she was doing or not doing with the trash and her car.  I knew I had done what I should.

This dream was showing me a situation with someone I am close to which I became aware of perhaps three weeks later.  She asked my advice as to how to handle two major life-changing situations.  One dealt with money and the other dealt with a personal relationship. In my opinion, she had a quite “a mess” in both areas.  So much so that it would have been very easy for her to harm someone else and herself in the process of making her current decisions.  The results of her poor decisions could have been and could still be devastating if the wrong circumstances arose.  I advised her in both areas and made it clear she needed to do as I directed.  Normally, when I give advice, I allow the other person to make their own choice as to what to do next.  But in this case, I was quite adamant as to what she needed to be doing and to stop in her poor decision making.  Thankfully, she was ready to hear the advice and apply it as I directed.  In this case, I was ready to help in the two areas that were very shaky but as to the rest of the mess she has made with her life, I chose to stay quiet and let her work those situations out in the way she sees is best.